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Why Reading to Baby is so Important…

Research is clear, children who are raised in a home with reading and where literacy and language are a priority, do better in school than those in families who don’t.

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Reading is happening earlier and earlier in schools. There used to be a time when children didn’t learn to read until first grade, kindergarten was only a half day, and preschools were really just daycares.  In today’s education system, however, Kindergarten is the full day, reading happens right away, and if your child didn’t/doesn’t go to preschool chances are they will be behind when they get into Kindergarten.

This switch has caused early literacy to become the forefront of much debate.  Often times making families feel they need to read to their children even earlier than before, and asking parents to make reading a larger priority from a younger age. In fact, the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends reading to your baby from birth. But why?

Research is clear, children who are raised in a home with reading and where literacy and language are a priority, do better in school than those in families who don’t. Early language and literacy play such a key role in the learning experiences that they are linked to academic achievement, reduced grade retention, higher graduation rates, and enhanced productivity in adult life.

I’ve worked in early childhood education for 11 years. I have worked in schools with affluent families and schools with the lowest of the lowest income families. I have seen first hand in both situations how reading affects children. Starting from birth, children are making connections to language, literacy, social-emotional skills, and to reading in general.

Here is a more in-depth view of what the research says:

  1. Reading builds language, literacy, and social-emotional skills:
    • Experts agree by talking, reading, rhyming, and singing to baby you are helping to build strong networks of words in a baby’s brain. Studies have shown that children who were read to as newborns have a larger vocabulary compared to families who didn’t. In fact, children who have parents who’ve read and talked to them know more words by the time they turn two than children who haven’t. Another study showed that babies whose family talk to them regularly scored higher on standardized tests when they turned three compared to families who talked less.
    • When you read to your child you use many different emotions and expressive sounds helping to develop strong social-emotional skills. Dr. Mary Ann Abrams, MD, Reach Out and Read’s Medical Director says, “You simply can’t hear that type of emotion in music or through watching TV. The spoken word conveys the idea that words have meaning and certain sounds mean certain things.”
    • Babies who read with their parents have many opportunities to look, point, touch, ask, and answer questions.  This ability promotes social development and thinking skills which will help them process the world around them as they get older.  They also get many opportunities to grow their language skills by imitating sounds, recognizing pictures, and learning words.
  2. Creates a strong bond and relationship between child and parents:
    • Reading to your baby combines the things they love the most, your voice, having a special closeness to you, and books. Reading books to your baby can create a one-on-one activity. Reading can be added to many different special times between you and your baby/child. These special times can build a strong and lasting bond with both the parents as well as the child.  A study in the Journal of Developmental and Behavioral Pediatrics showed that parents who read books in the NICU were able to enhance the parent-infant interaction and connection to that of a parent of a healthy newborn in the days and weeks after the baby’s birth. Meaning parents of NICU babies were able to build strong relationships with their children by reading, the same relationships that parents of healthy children are able to build right away.
  3. Shows reading is fun:
    • Reading with your baby helps them associate reading with joy, happiness, excitement, and closeness. These feelings allow babies and children to associate books with love and happiness. It also shows the baby/child that reading is a skill worth learning. By making reading a part of your regular family routine it teaches children early on that reading is something they can enjoy and not something they HAVE TO DO for school.  This enjoyment will create a love for reading that will follow them through school and into adulthood.

With all the research it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see how and why reading is so important. I know some families have a hard time finding the right books, fitting reading into their schedule, or getting the children to enjoy or sit still for the books you are reading. I share some amazing tips on how to make reading a part of your family’s daily life. What are some struggles you have faced with trying to incorporate more reading into your lifestyle?



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I am a mom of two with a passion for many things ranging from home remodeling to reading, from shopping to child behavior. I love sharing things I find and love and generally helping others feel happy and successful. This is what I aim to do with each and every post I write and all the content I create. I hope to help you find things to make your motherhood journey a little smoother. Follow along.

25 replies on “Why Reading to Baby is so Important…”

My parents ready to be all the time growing up. My mom even did all of the voices. I’m so grateful! And to this day I am a huge reader. It’s such an important thing for our own growth and development and truly helps to build empathy and understanding of others. Plus, it’s a wonderful form of self care – escaping into a good book is such a wonderful experience!
Thanks for sharing. I couldn’t agree with you more <3.


I’ve found that letting my daughter watch movie or television greatly diminishes her interest in books. We read a lot more when I stick to my guns and don’t let her watch television. I realize that’s a sort of radical approach, but it really does have an impact.


I would do the exact same thing. I don’t think it’s radical. Tv has a way of sucking kids in and nothing else is as important to them as tv. But then they pick up a book and maybe/hopefully they see there are more/better things than tv. Keep up the good work. Books are amazing!


We love reading- but my son can barely sit still to pay attention so it’s hard. I really should make an effort to do it more often as we only read 1-2 times/day now, and usually only for a couple minutes before he squirms away and runs off.


Yes to everything in this post! My son is now 3 and I hope to continue developing a love for reading as he grows. He loves to pick out Star Wars books at the library so we just go with his interest and I notice he wants to read more because he has increased interest.


SO TRUE! I read every day and night for my kiddos, I love it more than anything! My kids are bilingual danish/English so for me it’s very important to read a bunch of danish and English books to them ❤


We have read to our daughter at least before bed since she was six months old. I do think that reading and literacy is so important for kids, and its such a helpful tool to explain difficult situations. My husband is in the military and books helped our daughter process her emotions on our last move, and I’m sure they will help with the next move as well.


Oh my gosh, I’d nearly forgotten that I’m a product of half-day Kindergarten, lol. My, how times have changed! I don’t think I turned out too bad, lol, but you’re so right how different schools are today! I’ve read to my children from birth and they are now excellent readers for their age and they do indeed think reading is fun. But what I enjoy most of all is just the bond it creates. Sitting with them and reading before bed is truly my favorite part of the day.

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[…] Reading is so important. All parents and teachers want children to be readers. We know the benefits of a well-read child. Reading and listening to stories exposes children to a wide range of words. Reading can help build their own vocabulary and improve their understanding when listening. Not to mention that it is a fundamental skill in today’s society. When you have a reluctant reader who doesn’t show interest in reading it can be hard to know where to start and how to make reading an important part of your daily lives. […]


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